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How Do I Know If He Still Loves Me? 5 Signs | Bizzy Women

How Do I Know If He Still Loves Me? 5 Signs

If you are on the heels of a major breakup with your man, you are probably feeling a bit out of sorts emotionally. Or, you may even be feeling downright terrible. All of this is understandable. After all, whether he was your husband or your boyfriend, the ending of a serious romantic relationship can be an very disorienting, painful event in your life.  (Get him back.  Crawling back to you. Click Here to get him back)

When you find yourself apart from the one you love after a breakup, you may find yourself asking whether he still cares about you. You may also want to know whether he is dating someone new. In short, what you are really asking yourself is, “How do I know if he still loves me”? This is an understandable question, especially if you are still in love with him.

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If you wonder whether he still loves you, here are 5 signs that he might:

1. He asks about you through your friends

If you were married to or dated your man for a long time, it is likely that you share many of the same friends and acquaintances. If you hear now and then through the grapevine that your ex is still asking about how you are doing, that is a strong sign that he is still interested in you and may be in love with you. After all, why would he ask if he didn’t care?

2. He seems awkward or unsure of himself when you speak on the phone or in person

When you do run into your man or occasionally speak with him on the phone, how does he act? Is he fairly calm, mild-mannered, and cool? Or, on the contrary, does he seem just a bit flustered, awkward, and unsure of himself? If he seems to lack confidence or trip up his words now and then when the two of you speak, it may mean his feelings for you still run deep.

3. He tries to flaunt the fact that he is dating someone else

When you or your friends run into your ex, does he make it a point to let you find out that he is dating someone else? If your ex lets it slip that he is now with someone else or is at least pursuing other people, he could be trying to make you feel jealous. Of course, that would mean he still cares.

4. He still asks a lot of detailed questions about your personal life

Does your ex ask you questions that most people would consider too private for casual conversation? For example, does he want to know a lot of details about how you are spending your time, what your near-term plans are, and the like? These types of questions would indicate that you still occupy a starring role in his mind and heart.

5. He has completely pushed you out of his life

By contrast to the first 4 signs that he may still love you, some men choose to express their sadness and longing for their ex girlfriend or wife by completely breaking off all contact with her. Sure, on the surface that doesn’t sound like a very loving thing to do, does it? But, underneath that cold wall of silence might be a warm heart that is still pining for your love.

If you have asked yourself more than once since your breakup, “How do I know if he still loves me?”, you owe it to yourself to find out. If you think that he may still care about you, and if you still are feel loving toward your ex, it may not be too late to make things work again. You do have the power to rekindle your relationship. The first step is to arm yourself with the proper knowledge of how to do it.

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9 Comments For This Post

  1. pastfirst Says:

    I thoroughly enjoyed your post.
    I’m just not sure your statements are reliable.
    When two people separate after any lenghth of time, they’re bound to still be preoccupied with thoughts of the ex partner.
    Just because he asks your friends about you, or flaunts his new girlfriend, does not mean he still loves you. He may just may be curious or he may want to prove a point.

  2. Laura Says:

    I would like to know what it means when a peron is out shopping and doesn’t see her ex until he makes it a point to walk right in front of her.. After all he could have just avoided me like I wasnt there..
    He is so nutty he likes to pass in front of me to say go away..LOL. Just like I am pursueing him..but he should by know by now I am not..after all I took him to court with an injunction.. Man did that ever hurt his big fat ego..!!
    I did care for this man but he didnt treat me very well.

  3. Laura Says:

    After I got an injunction on him..he moved his mother into my apartment building.. And proceeded to let me see him with other women…. Is this nuts..or what?

  4. Nik Says:

    I don’t entirely agree with everything. For instance I flaunted my new boyfriend (whom I love very much) alot via websites of mine because my ex was constantly checking up on me and I wanted him to get the hint that I was extreamly happy and had moved on.. so if a guy does flaunt a new flame it might just be to let his ex know to get lost. I agree with the other things you wrote..

  5. Christy Says:

    My first question is: why did you break up in the first place? People that cannot work out obstacles, and are constantly breaking up and getting back together truly need to examine their relationship. You could care for someone deeply, but not be mature/ready for a relationship.

    I truly believe if a couple breaks up, there’s a reason. And you should let the relationship go and move on. If you both loved each other, you should have worked it out in the first place.

  6. Stacey Says:

    I don’t necessarily agree that you should let a relationship go if you break up. That might be true for young people who are just dating. But, lot’s of couples “break up” i.e. seperate after being married for a long time. Things just happen along the way that can cause heartache. Sometimes couples need a break in order to sort things out in their minds. I do NOT agree that you should just let a relationship go after you’re married, except, of course, if there is abuse or addiction involved. Once you make a commitment to somebody, you should seek all means possible in order to make it work. Just moving on is all to common in American society today. What about love, honor, responsibility and commitment?

  7. tsholo.uj student Says:

    im in a seven year relationship and there are ups and downs especially if your man turns to act strangly,but however i never gave up on us and told mysef after what we ahve been through i wont just give i did have my suspecions but either way i love him,not that i agree with him cheating but it was just a thought i wasnt really sure about that

  8. Aswathy Says:

    Well said stacey

  9. Woo Says:

    I’m young 22.. And me and my fiancé have been together for almost seven years we had our make ups and break ups but we have matured over the years… I’m in the army now for almost a year now and he stuck by my side thru the whole thing couldve done it without him now were getting married when I get home.. Yes things happen for a reason.. So y did he stick by my side all this time even while I was away… Love, and committment

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