Yes there is such a thing as moving too fast especially in an on-line situation and yet so many people cannot help throwing themselves into a deep relationship based on such little contact. On-line romances can definitely be the start of something magical and even lead to marriage but how they start is the key. Although love is not something you can ever control have you been blocked by anyone on-line for being too intense?

Have you been told you are coming on too strong and scared someone off?
Unfortunately there are many people out there looking for the ideal partner and it all comes down to luck and timing, which cannot be controlled but so fate has to lend a hand, the only thing you can control is your actions.

If you have found someone you know would be ideal for you and maybe you have had a few on-line chats and even been very flirty and swapped email addresses, then just slow down. Really STOP texting, messaging or emailing them because if they feel it too, they will come to you. Always be cautious when giving out ‘real’ personal information like a telephone number or address on-line because you are putting yourself into a potentially risky situation. Never also ask someone for their information in the first few emails because it can be seen as a little forward, just don’t rush things and take your time.

Real love happens like lightening, flash and it’s there but in the on-line world people, especially the ladies are a bit cool and anyone chasing them too much will be seen as a potential stalker rather than a romantic fool. So tone down the sweetheart love of my life stuff and try and be real talk about interests and stimulate their mind as well as being a little flirty. Take time to get to know someone as well as you can via email and messenger before taking the next step or you could risk losing that person altogether.