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What Do Women Want?

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What Do Women Want?


By Dr. Judith Briles

As a Smart Money Woman, the things that you do to achieve financial independence don’t need to be complicated. When it comes to money, thousands of women I have met over the past year at workshops and conferences have shared their thoughts and concerns about their money lives and futures. What they do with their money is woven into the 10 key areas below. See if any match your expectations, needs, and concerns.

Security
Women are concerned about their security, and not just physical but fiscal security. What is going on with Social Security and Medicare? Can Congress be trusted to sort out the issues and set a realistic plan in motion before a real crisis erupts?

Many of us are feeling a vertical squeeze today between financial and emotional responsibilities for both kids (sons and daughters don’t move out as soon as they did in previous generations) and parents (mothers and/or fathers who need or require financial and emotional support).

Safety
Wherever monies have been placed for preservation and/or growth, we want to know that a company or financial institution is not going to go out of business.

When women invest their money, they want to be secure in the notion that the individual with whom they work or the place where they invest their monies will react or behave in a stable manner.

Will my money be safe? Will it be accessible? Will I be able to sleep at night?

Solvency
As this is being written, we have two Presidential candidates who have decidedly different views about Social Security, a key factor in millions of women’s financial lives in our country.

If Social Security converts to a form of private fund, will it be solvent? Will my dollar today keep up with whatever inflation there is tomorrow? Will my monies have real value tomorrow, next year, when I retire?

Simplicity
Today’s lifestyles come in MTV-style sound bytes. Everything moves quickly, and the speed doesn’t allow for complexity. In reality, over the past two decades, women have been the proponents for a more informal style of living, and they want to manage their money in the same mode. No frills, just explanations of the pros and cons in easy to understand terms. Just the facts, thank you.

Strategies
In the wake of the last decade’s incredible stock market success, women who invested in the stock market discovered that many of their decisions and strategies led to profits–in some cases, huge profits.

Will the stock market yield the same type of returns in the new millennium? No one has a crystal ball. The Smart Money Woman wants to know what strategies fit her lifestyle as well as her overall objectives.

Because of the statistics showing that women live longer than men, their investing strategy must help them become self-reliant in money matters. In assessing options, determine if a particular investment approach is nothing more than a hot investment fad or something that, if implemented today, will be viable and profitable when it comes time to retire. Will yesteryear’s investment market be as successful as tomorrow’s?

Stewardship
We feel responsible for the impact our monies have on the larger world. Women want to know that our funds “do good”–for our families, our environment, our communities, and ourselves.

Solutions
We are bombarded on a daily basis with problems that affect our families, our society, and the country, even the world.

Women must learn to filter out the problems that they have no role in or control over. Instead, women need to be creative and start working on the solution side of the ledger. Mistakes will be made, but movement is what we need–not paralysis, procrastination, or politics.

Smarts
Men are known for jumping into things and attacking whatever problem presents itself. Women are problem solvers too, though our methods may be a little different. In the financial realm, the first step is to gain money knowledge–which in turn leads to our individual and collective achievement.

Satisfaction
Whatever we do, we want to feel that there is a reason and a rational for what we do with our money. Women look for satisfaction in how we earn our monies, and we want to be satisfied that we’ve been given multiple options in terms of money management.

When women are satisfied that they’ve followed the right strategies for themselves and their families, both professionally and financially, they ought to cheer their success. Bravo to the Smart Money Woman who knows that she is on track and celebrates her success.

Sense
Above all, women want to feel that whatever strategies they create and follow make sense for who they are and what they believe in. It’s not enough simply to have money. The real question is “Am I comfortable with how I accumulate, invest, and spend my money?”

Which of these 10 areas strikes a cord in you? What do you want?

Judith Briles, Ph.D. is a speaker, columnist, and award-winning author of 20 books including 10 Smart Money Moves for Women and Smart Money Moves for Kids. She can be reached at 303-627-9179 and e-mailed at DrJBriles@aol.com. Her Web site is www.briles.com.

Tiffany Bass Bukow is the CEO & Founder of the #1 Personal Finance Website for Women and Families – www.msmoney.com. My life mission is to help people and the world thrive through creating companies that provide money, career and life skills education.

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Should Parents Toss Their Kids Out of The House?

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Should Parents Toss Their Kids Out of The House?


With the slowing economy, a new phenomenon has taken hold. It’s pretty common for young people in their 20’s to move back into their parents home, but now we are seeing adults, in their 40’s and 50’s moving back in with mom and dad.  Either because of a sluggish job market or the credit issues which have caused havoc with the housing market, in many cases adults have no choice but to bite the bullet and move back home.

Common wisdom among financial planners that I know is that parents shouldn’t jeopardize their financial independence in order to help out their adult children. Once your kids become adults, you should wipe your hands of responsibility.

But as I love to say, there is more to life than economics and financial planning. My question is, what is family for? Should parents take a cruise to the Caribbean when their responsible daughter was just laid off and is in a financially tough spot? Dying and getting buried with lots of money doesn’t really help. Isn’t the point of having money, aside for trying to provide a comfortable lifestyle, to try and help out those less fortunate? Wouldn’t a struggling daughter fit that bill?

If parents are themselves stretched financially, they don’t have to actually shell out money for the child. Rather, they can provide a roof and help that way, allowing the child to save hundreds of dollars a month.

I have worked with parents in similar situations. I have found that for both parents and the children who have moved back in, they find that their relationship has grown much stronger as a result.

Neither parents nor children view moving back home as a desirable outcome, but if left with no choice, would you actually refuse to support your child?

Aaron Katsman is the lead Portfolio Manager and Managing Director of America Israel Investment Associates, LLC. and Senior Editor of IsraelNewsletter.com

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