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8 Signs a Guy Likes You

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8 Signs a Guy Likes You


You have met a great guy and maybe you have been dating for a while. But you still do not know how he feels about you. What are the best signs a guy likes you?

1. Analyze his body language. If he likes you, you might notice that he doesn’t turns his back to you, often leans towards you, and often looks at you.

2. Check his eye contact. If he likes you, he might either look away quickly whenever he is shy or unconfident or he will catch your eyes or hold it. This could be uneasy whenever you do not like him. Whenever you think you have held eye contact more than a second or if he looks away quickly, this guy could like you. When he is close to you and he says something funny and everyone around the two of you is laughing, he will look at you to see if you are laughing, too.

3. Listen closely to what he is saying. If he likes you, and he’s nervous, he will start talking about himself. Often, a guy thinks he needs to prove himself, especially if you talk about another guy.

4. Be aware of physical contact. He could put his hand on your arm or back when he is laughing, and will not move his legs if it happens to touch yours, or he might hug you often. All of these are signs of a guy liking you, unless he’s a player who flirts with a many women and girls.

5. See how he behaves around other girls and watch if he treats you otherwise. Often a guy flirts with other girls only to get your attention. It gives them an opportunity to see your response. It helps them know if you do like them. The best method you can tell the guy is trying to make you jealous is that they rarely look at you when they are flirting with someone else. Another sign is that when you leave, he immediately stops to flirt with the other girl. You can ask a friend look out for this. You need to be sneaky to find out if a guy likes you.

6. Check if he is showing interest in things you do or talk about. For instance, if you like a kind of music that he likes as well, he might suggest artists you should listen to.

7. Look for signs of nervousness like sweaty palms, nervous laughter, deep breaths, fidgeting. These are all signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on you.

8. Look at his friends. If they know this guy likes you, they may tease him a bit when you are near, or even try to find out if you like him. Notice their reactions when you are around – are they smiling? Do they act in a way that suggests they know something that you don’t?

The tips mentioned are some good signs a guy likes you. Use them!

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Just in case you hadn’t heard enough about SXSW:some final thoughts

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Just in case you hadn’t heard enough about SXSW:some final thoughts


I feel like I’m a little late in the game to be doing the obligatory post-SX-wrapup blog post, but I’m going to do it anyways. And hopefully I can share some insight for those of you who might go to SXSW 2010. Especially the really young people, since I was easily one of the youngest there.

To answer the obvious first question: yes, it really was amazing. A lot of people will tell you: it’s about the people and connections, not about panels. This is generally true. However, panels are great too. And some of the best connections I made at SXSW were by going to panels and staying behind after they were over to talk to the panelists and get to know them more.

Was it weird hanging out with people you only knew online before: not at all, though I’m sure my friends are waiting with their “cyberfriends” cracks. But I think they’re missing out on a huge opportunity by NOT networking online. And finally getting to meet some of these people I’d been working with online for so long was really awesome. Sydney is so much fun. Elysa really loves her iPhone a lot :) Ryan Paugh is just as really, really sweet as Penelope describes him, and we have a shared affinity for taking shots. Holly and Margie are tiny but make up for it with a whole lot of energy. Oh, and Penelope really is a tornado. In a good way though! I think. She also gave me dating advice: “Nisha, there’s a ton of single tech entrepreneurs with no social skills at this party and hardly any girls. Come on! You’re not leveraging your girlness enough!” Thanks, P.

I could go on forever about all the things I liked about SXSW, and the fantastic people I met and the great opportunities I got out of it (I’m attending 2 conferences I’m really excited about in the next two months because of people I met at SX!) but I can’t possibly get into all of it.

One thing I will say is that I went to SXSW because of Brazen Careerist. Those of you who have been around this blog since the beginning –which, okay, is not really that long ago — will know I wrote this crazy post on how blogging impacted my life in December for the Brazen blog contest, and by some miracle I actually won, and got to attend SXSW Interactive as a result. To be honest, I had no idea what SXSW even WAS before that contest but I entered because Ryan Paugh would not stop talking about this contest for two weeks straight so I figured, why not. I really just was hoping my post would be good enough to get on the front page of Brazen, since I didn’t know much about SXSW.

I wrote that post three months ago and my theme was about empowerment, and how blogging empowered me to quit being a “lurker” – both online and in my personal life. It was about how I started becoming an active participant in running my own life instead of letting my decisions be dictated by others. And it was all about how empowering and exciting that was to me.

Three months later I’m home from SXSW and I can’t believe what an amazing experience this conference was — and most importantly, it was empowering. It was so exciting to spend five days in the company of some of the most brilliant, creative, innovative minds in the field of new media and technology. Like Sydney said: this conference is for the innovators and early adopters — and it was amazing to be around like-minded people who shared the same interests I did. I know I’m not the only one who can honestly say I’m having SXSW withdrawal.

Because of SXSW and some of the people I’ve met there, I’ve found even more cool new opportunities in the next few months that I’m really excited about and I feel really empowered by all of it. I feel like SXSW was just the beginning of what is going to be a really exciting ride. But that definitely would never have happened if I hadn’t put myself out there, started a blog, joined Brazen, written that post at 4 am, and entered that contest that I didn’t even think I should have been entering in the first place.

So to sum up, I think the lesson I’ve learned from this whole experience is: don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. Sometimes it sucks, I know. But you never know what kind of awesome opportunities could come out of it. So take a risk and do whatever it is you’re worried about…. you might be really pleasantly surprised.

(And next time Brazen has a contest: you better enter!)

Nisha Chittal is a writer and journalist who currently serves as Associate Editor of CitizenJanePolitics.com and is a political columnist for UniversityChic.com. Her personal blog is Politicoholic, where she offers commentary on a range of topics, including but not limited to politics, technology, and the changing role of women and Generation Y in politics today.

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How grateful are you? And what are you grateful for?

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How grateful are you? And what are you grateful for?


You know that little blank box on the left hand side of our Facebook profiles? The one no one can quite figure out what they should write in? One profile I saw today read in the box: “I have nothing but gratitude for every single stupid second of my little life.”

I thought it was pretty remarkable since often we get too wrapped up in our lives to truly be grateful for what we have. And I thought of this most last week when during my daily news-gathering I stumbled upon this piece about the DABA girls. If you haven’t read it yet, stop and go read it, and then come back here.

It’s called Dating A Banker, Anonymous. The DABA girls are a bunch of twentysomething women, mostly in Manhattan, who are dating rich bankers and basically living the life. That is, until every bank in America started imploding and the credit crisis hit –and every financial professional’s life got a lot more stressful.

Their girlfriends, however, are having none of it — and they’re absolutely despondent over the fact that they might not have their monthly Bergdorf’s allowances, they might have to cook dinner themselves, they might not get bottle service anymore, and some of their credit cards are getting cancelled. On their blog, they share their stories. One even complains that she may have to move to the Midwest for a more affordable lifestyle (and what is so wrong with the Midwest, I have to ask?)

Yes, I have heard some speculation that the DABA girls thing may be a stunt. Whether it is a stunt or not, I have no idea. But either way, the girls are either a) telling the truth, and genuinely unhappy about their lavish lifestyles being taken away, or b) really, really hungry for publicity. Either way, totally out of touch with reality.

The DABA girls, to me, are representative of a larger problem in society: we’ve forgotten where we came from. Gratitude is now only in style once a year, on Thanksgiving. All of us are guilty at times of taking what we have for granted (although the DABA girls take that to a whole new level). We get obsessed with wanting more — which is, after all, the American way.

The best part about the NPR article I linked to above is when the NYT, in their statement, says:

“The reason we liked the story — likely the same reason it has attracted so much attention — is that we knew it was resonant with many people who had nothing to do with their group but found themselves in similar situations.”

Um, what? I know a lot of people that are affected by the recession. But, when you’re worrying about making ends meet or finding a job or funding your company, who can actually relate to these girls?

No one living in the real world, that’s who.

They don’t give us something to relate to. They just give us a picture of how an abundance of wealth can make you completely lose your mind, and just how destructive money can sometimes be when we let it run our lives. Because the more we have, the more we want, until we completely forget where we came from. Instead of appreciating the little things, we start to just expect them. And demand them. And we become the centers of our own universes instead of remembering the things that matter.

But at the very least, reading their story reminded me of one thing: I have a lot of things to be grateful for in my life, recession or not. Exactly a month ago, I was sitting in Cambodia in an orphanage while little kids ran around our table trying to sell us books. Five years old, and they work all day hoping to sell a book or two because if they don’t — there wouldn’t be dinner tonight.

I don’t even know what I was doing when I was five. But I think my biggest worries in life were whether I could get my bedtime extended and whether I was going to get Polly pocket for Christmas, and probably how soon I was getting the training wheels off my bike. Yeah.

Being grateful is sometimes hard, but we shouldn’t let anything make us forget how fortunate we still are. Sometimes, all it takes is that little reality check.

Nisha Chittal is a writer and journalist who currently serves as Associate Editor of CitizenJanePolitics.com and is a political columnist for UniversityChic.com. Her personal blog is Politicoholic, where she offers commentary on a range of topics, including but not limited to politics, technology, and the changing role of women and Generation Y in politics today.

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Organizing Tips and Organizing Ideas Need Some Help

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Organizing Tips and Organizing Ideas Need Some Help


Here is a poem from my daughter Julie

“She whispered in the wind, hoping her words would travel safely to the soft pink pools in their ears. Where they keep the memory of her childhood laughter, safely echoing and resting like she did in their arms when a child.”

I read this and thought that was nice. But I didn’t understand it until my other daughter re-read it to me and explained what it was saying. Wow! It is beautiful.

I think that is how it is with many of us; we want to get organized and we often “collect” organizing ideas and organizing tips but we don’t know what to do with the information. Sometimes we need someone else to help us understand organizing ideas or organizing tips in a different way.

I have a friend who bought a container to hold pens in her desk. The next day her girls took the container and were using it for something else. She jumped to the conclusion that containers don’t work and never bought another one for ten years. (GASP, containers make organizing fun, easy and simple). She had a good organizing idea but she needed more help or instruction on how to successfully use it.

A few things she could have done was to explain to her girls what it was going to be used for and if they needed containers for other things she would get them. She could have labeled the container. Labeling containers seems to anchor the contents to the container and it makes it easy to find things in them.

What is an organizing idea or organizing tip that has worked well for you?

Marilyn Bohn is an energetic, lively, compassionate, hard working and creative organizer. She was born to organize! Before becoming a professional organizer she worked professionally in diverse environments. She is involved in her community, providing her clients with a broad base of experience and knowledge.  She is a member of the National Association of Professional Organizers (NAPO).

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